Female Blogger Dilemas (Used from Xiaxue's Blog)

Female blogger dilemma

If you are anonymous - you must be a fat ugly loser in real life.

If you show your identity and you look ugly - You should do plastic surgery.

If you show your identity and you already did plastic surgery - you are fake and disgusting.

If you are au-natural and pretty - you are still fake coz you put make-up, or must photoshop your pictures.

If you are pretty and don't put make up - it's because you don't know how. Also, you look boring and pale.

If you are pretty and put make up - you are superficial, insecure and shallow. Go save a whale.

If you get popular - you are a famewhore.

If you don't get popular - you are a nobody.

If you get popular and earn money from being popular - you are a sell-out.

If you get popular but don't earn money - you are stupid, and also, who you think you are, so bloody high and mighty?

If you are single and not dating - something's wrong with you.

If you are single and dating - you are a slut.

If you are attached - your boyfriend is either ugly or too good for you.

If you are married - you are a boring housewife.

If you are married with kids - why the fuck are you blogging when you should be looking after your kids? You are a shit mom.

If your partner is rich - you are a gold-digger.

If your partner is poor - you are a unrealistic romantic and if you break up with him for someone who works later on, you are a gold-digger.

If your partner is nice - Don't know what he sees in you.

If your partner is a jerk - You are a moron for dating him in the first place but you deserve no better anyway.

If you keep your life private - you have something to hide and you are a liar.

If you don't keep your life private and your life is sad - What a loser.

If you don't keep your life private and your life is fab - What a show off.

If you don't speak your mind - you are stupid, apathetic and unopinionated.

If you speak your mind - you are ignorant and talking about things you don't know about. You 

should shut up.

If you are fat - that's the only thing you are. That and disgusting.

If you are skinny - You must be anexoric or bulimic. Also you are making other women feel fat and thus spreading unhealthy weight ideals.

If you are of average weight - You are fat.

If you don't respond to haters - Means what they said must be true and you have nothing to say.

If you respond nicely to haters - They will just have more ammunition and hate you more.

If you respond rudely to haters - You cannot take criticism and you are a cyberbully.

So as read in the title, this is from Xiaxue, a Singaporean blogger, 

So credits to her.

Anyway,

I totally agree with all of this. It's difficult to be a female blogger! You're constantly judged and people form stereotypes about you. I don't think guy bloggers have a problem like this...totally messed up.
Obviously, having just started out, we haven't experienced it.
One of the lines really caught my eye--
"If you show your identity and you already did plastic surgery - you are fake and disgusting."
WHY???
Why can't people look how they want? People always tell others, "accept who you are and embrace it."
What if we don't want to?
Why do people have to embrace their "ugly?"
Don't they always tell you that confidence is key?
Seriously. If you want to be pretty, don't just mope around and think that you're not embracing yourself enough, do something about it.
My fave quote is "There is no such thing as ugly women, only lazy women."
SO BASICALLY, You don't have to embrace your natural self! Don't feel obliged to! I mean, if you want to, that's all fine and dandy, but if you feel ugly, don't just go "oh, I'm ugly. Oh well. Looks like I have to sit here and write sad poetry about myself."


*sigh*
Why do we judge people who've gotten plastic surgery? 
It's really not a big deal. As long as you know what you're doing, and know what you're getting into, it's your choice.

Oops. 

♥

Nat